Author: Almaz Ohene

  • Cross-generational Desire and the Fallacy of the Father Complex

    Cross-generational Desire and the Fallacy of the Father Complex

    What’s the adjective for ‘hooking-up-with-a-hot-man-andhis-pal-on-a-Friday-night-and-then-finally-sleeping-with-yourlong time-girl-crush-the-following-week’? I’m that.  Sexually fluid. Consensually non-monogamous. And proud. One of my many sexual partners was a man I met at a literary event. The attraction between us was immediate. I was 24. He was 50 and divorced. My heart leapt when I got a notification later that evening to…